Forgive That Human Being

 

FORGIVE THAT HUMAN BEING

BY MATILDA PHIRI



A Human being is prone to making mistakes. To err is human and to forgive is divine. Today you can make a mistake, if you do not forgive your friend or spouse, tomorrow it will be you and you will need them to forgive you too so what will you do? I know it really hurts when somebody does us something extremely bad. You can even try to harm yourself because of the hurtful actions but it is not the end of everything. In life, anything can happen. Do not worry much, the person might say sorry to you and might want you again. Do not lose hope.

If God can forgive us who are we not to forgive others? If God could not forgive us we would all end up in hell. You do not want to go to hell or be punished by God for not forgiving someone who wronged you. The bible clearly says that, we should forgive and love our enemies. Even if they wronged so many times, we should still forgive them. Do not get tired doing good things. You never know which time will be the best for you and your lucky payday.

We all have weaknesses, some are too much to bear but we need to understand them because you do not know where and how they were raised and what they have experienced in their life. Life is too short to concentrate on someone’s weaknesses, you need to try help them be better people. Celebrate and embrace somebody’s goodness besides their weaknesses. The people who have weaknesses need your love to help them become good people. Be patient with them like how our creator or the universe is so patient with us. Even though we are bad people, doing all sorts of immoral things we do not die right away, we are still roaming on earth freely. Nature has not killed us, it’s there for us every day. So why do you want to kill another person? Why do you want to dump that handsome man or that beautiful girl? For what? What are their strengths? Are you happy with their strengths? ‘Oh Matilda, you know what, she’s just too much, her weakness is too much to bear she cheats on me, I can’t take it.’ Ok cheating we will understand, if you do not cheat. 

The bible has said that you can leave your spouse because of cheating. But you can still forgive them and pray for another good girl. The same with men who cheat and you are a lady that cannot take the nonsense, you can also forgive and leave him to go wherever he goes to sin. But we should all learn to forgive others for the wrongs that they are doing to us because if you do that, you also release yourself from stress. You do not need that bad energy in your life. Remember, life is too short and very sweet to keep grudges. Love everybody, you are not a hater.

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