The door was still closed and nobody knew what was happening inside the house. After knocking on the main door several times, Cheulanda the gate man stood facing the door whilst pondering the next move. It simply was not normal that neither his boss nor the house maid could hear the knock. He had been knocking on the door for thirty minutes but to no avail. The time was already past 1:30 in the afternoon, usually, he would have finished his lunch by this time. He had to act fast as he was famished.  The two had not come out of the house since the previous evening when they had gone to sleep. They always wake up at around 7 am every day except on weekends. Even Brown did not go to work that day, a thing which worried Cheulanda. “What has happened to these people? Why are they not opening the door?” wondered Cheulanda.   Suddenly, he had an idea to break the door. He then quickly picked a huge stone and threw it at the door. Bang! The door shook, but did not yi...

Yes, real love does exist. Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that humans have experienced throughout history. It is a deep affection and care for another person, often accompanied by feelings of warmth, attachment, and a desire for their well-being and happiness. Real love can be found in various relationships, including romantic partnerships, friendships, familial bonds, and even love for humanity or other living beings. It involves a genuine and selfless connection, characterized by empathy, respect, trust, and support. While love can vary in intensity and expression, genuine love typically goes beyond superficial infatuation or fleeting emotions. It involves a deeper understanding of another person, acceptance of their flaws and imperfections, and a willingness to work through challenges and grow together. It's important to note that love isn't always perfect or without difficulties. Relationships require effort, communication, and compromise. Real love involves ack...

BY MATILDA PHIRI After Three Months of Marriage, This Happened: Addressing Issues of Intimacy Denial Dear Blogger, My wife has refused to sleep with me just three months into our marriage. This has become her habit. What could be the reasons behind this? She says she doesn’t have feelings for me? What should I do? Dear Unanimous MY ADVICE TO YOU: The journey of marriage is filled with both joyous and challenging moments. Among these challenges, one that frequently arises is the issue of intimacy between partners. In this article, we explore a common scenario where a woman denies physical intimacy to her husband, citing a lack of connection. We delve into the possible reasons behind this denial and offer advice on how couples can navigate this delicate situation. Understanding the Concerns: Intimacy is a vital aspect of any healthy marriage, fostering emotional and physical connection between partners. However, when a partner denies love making, it can lead to feelings of ...