My Boyfriend is not Forgiving Me What Should I Do?

 Dear Friend 

I'm sorry to hear that your boyfriend is not forgiving you. It's important to understand that forgiveness is a personal choice and it's not something that can be forced upon someone. However, there are some steps you can take to try to make amends and repair the relationship.

Apologize: It's important to apologize sincerely for whatever it is that you did wrong. Make sure your apology is genuine and that you take responsibility for your actions.

Listen: Listen to your boyfriend's feelings and concerns. Try to understand why he is having difficulty forgiving you and show that you are willing to make changes to prevent the same situation from happening again in the future.

Give him space: Sometimes, people need space and time to process their emotions. Respect his space and give him the time he needs to come to a decision.

Be patient: Forgiveness is a process and it may take time. Be patient and give your boyfriend the time he needs to forgive you.

Seek professional help: If the situation is particularly difficult or you are having trouble communicating with your boyfriend, consider seeking the help of a professional counselor or therapist.

Ultimately, the decision to forgive is up to your boyfriend. All you can do is apologize, listen, and try to make things right. If he is still unwilling to forgive you, it may be time to accept his decision and move on.

Thanks

Matilda Phiri.