A Warning To Men

 

A WARNING TO MEN 

By Matilda Phiri

Men watch out! African Men watch out! Life is crazy, life is a mystery and life can be funny. Be careful with what you put into the universe. Whatever you put out in the Universe will certainly fin d its way back to you. Make sure whatever you are putting out there has some goodness in it, which you will enjoy when it comes back to you.

Life is a very good teacher. Life is so patient, it gives you time to learn, meditate and pick out lessons from it. Life also gets tired with your actions if you are not learning. That is why even the Bible says 'Whoever hears good news or the gospel and does not change, he will die suddenly.’ This is dangerous and most importantly, a big warning.

African men these days are hard to trust. Most men have two or more girlfriends, whether married or not. They even enjoy the mistress (MG) words that they have MG 2 or Sidechick. The unmarried ones are also worse these days; they keep changing from one girl to another as if they do not know what they really want. Boys or men are breaking these girl's hearts, and some even commit suicide because of such heartbreaks. Most girls turn to cry to God for his help on what these men have done to them. Some seek for revenge in whatever way they see fit even if it means to kill.

Men watch out! You forget that people are different and the way they handle issues is different as well. You’re not clever, and I am not sorry to say you are a fool if you do this deliberately. Men tend to forget that we all have our weaknesses, which we can bear for each other if we really say we love each other. Nobody is perfect in this world; we are here to help each other to the glory of God. One thing, we must always remember is that; Love is Powerful and it can change many things. If you keep changing partners, where are you going to find a pure angel on earth? What are you looking for? Are you sure what you’re looking for does exist? Do you even know that there was no aeroplane but we made it with our hands and there were problems with it before it fully became an aeroplane we have now? We used our common sense to create such a feature.

Why then are you not using common sense and suddenly acting like dogs? Why are our relationships or marriages a whole bunch of mess? Do you not say you are the head of that home? Are you managing your duties as a head or the leader you claim to be? Should leaders just give up just like that? Have you seen presidents just giving out their power just like that? The way they love power and want to be there forever! What are you men doing? Why can’t you respect God who blessed us with lovemaking? Instead of thanking God for that great gift, today you want to mock God? Why can’t you just be satisfied with one woman? You know many women when they find a man whom they have loved and the man is also loving them, they stop their bad habits and commit to that one person. The Bible tells us that wives should obey their husbands and in return, husbands should love their wives. Do you call cheating on your partner, love? Is abusing your lover love? Is dumping your girl on other reasons other than sex outside relationship or marriage love? Where are you learning this new lifestyle?

Recently, we are reading on blogs about what some Tanzanian star is doing trying to win back his Ex-lover, getting to the point of putting their old love pictures on billboards to gain her favour. He was dating a while ago, it did not work and he remembered that he lost his precious gift more than gold and he wants it back. We do not know if life will give him another chance to find his love again. If he’s lucky he will find another girl and settle but still if that girl has, some flaws worse than his ex's he will always have problems.

Men have stopped fearing Gold and sexual immorality is a trend now. They want to try every girl in the whole village. Doing this, will make you an animal. No woman would be happy sharing her man. The same way you cannot be happy sharing a woman. This is very sad and shameful; respect your spouse, your body and God. Have one woman and marry.